Paul Nijar

Spiritual Insights on Your Everyday Troubles

Date archives June 2016

love / relationship

How to Defeat Your Unfaithful Desires

“How do I stop thinking about other girls when I’m in a relationship?”

This is a question I’ve been asked many times. A great number of people have lost the potential of having lasting relationships due to their infidelities or their desire to be with other people. As they come in and out of different relationships, they wonder if they are stuck in a never-ending cycle of relationships that just don’t work. So what’s the diagnosis?

Sounds like you’ve got a case of “wondering eyes syndrome.” Continue reading

happiness

How to Find Lasting Happiness

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What is happiness and where do I find it?

Happiness comes in many different forms for many of us. Everyone wants to be happy in some shape or another. But when we want for something, it’s because we feel it’s something we are lacking. It’s funny, because as much as we want it and can’t find it, it’s sitting right in front of us. There’s no far off land we need to travel to in order to discover it.

“One of the best things in life is realizing you’re perfectly happy without the things you thought you needed the most.” Continue reading

life hack

Sticks N Stones Will Break Bones…

“I’m rubber, you’re glue! Everything you say bounces off of me and comes right back to you!”

This is something that my sister and I constantly recited back to each other when we were kids. This line alone was what saved us from even the cleverest rebuttal. All responses were no match for this one-liner! Aside from being a great way to have the last word, this line itself carries some major truth. Continue reading

goals / meditation / paulosophy

How the Law of Attraction Limits You

By now everyone has heard or is familiar with the law of attraction. When we desire to have something, we have been taught to focus on just that to watch it come into formation. It is true that everything you desire to achieve and have in life will be yours.

“Well what in the heck happened to my red bike with the silver bell?!”

So often we feel that the laws of attraction are breaking their own laws when it comes to delivering the goods we requested. The reason we may feel this way is because we are holding a strong attachment the image of what we want that we fail to take notice to the riches that come our way in other forms. It’s this determined focus that causes us the emotional and energetic detriment. Continue reading

LIFE / life hack

Why Your Music Choices Will Destroy You

“If you wish to understand the universe, think of energy, frequency and vibration.” – Nikola Tesla

From the very start of our lives we have been conditioned to perceive our existence through the 5 senses. Everything we have learned and believed to be true is credited to those limited senses. The truth is that we are more than what we see and feel; we are more than just flesh and bone.  Continue reading