Paul Nijar

Spiritual Insights on Your Everyday Troubles

Posts tagged soul

relationship / sex

How to Overcome Bedroom Shyness

“My wife has been playing hiding and go seek with her body for over a year.  Sounds fun right?! Not!!  I’ve yet to find her body!”

This game of hide and go seek is a game that many couples are failing to win at.  It becomes an on-going game that leads to a sexless marriage.  Despite having been with their partner for years, this does nothing to solve the shyness of being naked in front of each other.  Instead, they will tip-toe around each other trying to conceal themselves from prying eyes. Continue reading

mother's day

Happy Mother’s Day to Yo Momma!

It’s that time again in May where we give tribute to Yo Momma!

We been doing this year after year like clockwork. Each year Yo Momma gets some flowers to go along with her Sunday breakfast in bed. After all that she does for us year round, it is the universal way of giving credit to the one who deserves it most. It’s the one day in the year, where she’s going to get the red carpet rolled out for her.

“Yo Momma loved the breakfast in bed! But her joy was short lived as she found the red carpet lead her back to the kitchen!” Continue reading

LIFE / paulosophy

Death is An Illusion

Death is a very hard topic for us to deal with. With the lingering emotions that plague us, it becomes difficult to move on. This is especially challenging when the person who had passed is very young. They died at such a young age, with so much more life ahead of them. We often wonder why their lives could have been taken so abruptly, when they were just starting to make moves in career or on different projects.

“It’s not fair. Their life was just starting.”

When we think of death, we think of the end. In truth, there is no end. Death only represents the end of one thing, but it’s the start of another. Everything in this world is temporary. This includes the seasons, the people, the clothes, your jobs, and material objects. All these things have a lifespan. The soul on the other hand is eternal and exists beyond time.

“When a person dies, what happens to their soul?” Continue reading

love

If Only We Loved As Much As We Judged

By Paul Nijar

“Hey weirdo!  It’s butter side down, not butter side up!”  (Dr. Seuss reference)

There are billions of people of that live on this planet and everyone lives their lives their own way.  We differ with such great variety that it becomes very difficult to relate to or understand another person’s way of living.

“OMG!  I saw these people the other day and they eat using their bare hands!  No utensils!  So barbaric!” Continue reading