Paul Nijar

Spiritual Insights on Your Everyday Troubles

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How to Remove Your Masks

We all play different roles in our lives that may change from moment to moment. Each role depicts an emotional state we may be feeling at the time. Although this may seem like the traits of a hormonal pregnant woman, it can happen to anyone of us. This may be a problem for those who don’t like showing their emotions. Being transparent with what we are feeling makes us feel vulnerable. Vulnerability makes us feel insecure and fearful of people discovering our truth. In an attempt to hide our true feelings, we put on an act.

I hate two-faced people. It’s so hard to decide which face to slap first. Continue reading

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How to Defeat Anger Before It Defeats You!

“I’m going to HUFF and PUFF and BLOWWWW your house down!”

Anger is something that so many of us have to deal with. Whether we are witnessing someone else act out in a raging fit or if we are acting it out ourselves, it’s something that stimulates us at a very high intensity. Anger is something that we have almost come to accept as a part of life. This sad reality is what paves the way for future occurrences.

“Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.” – Ambrose Bierce Continue reading

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Sticks N Stones Will Break Bones…

“I’m rubber, you’re glue! Everything you say bounces off of me and comes right back to you!”

This is something that my sister and I constantly recited back to each other when we were kids. This line alone was what saved us from even the cleverest rebuttal. All responses were no match for this one-liner! Aside from being a great way to have the last word, this line itself carries some major truth. Continue reading

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Why Your Music Choices Will Destroy You

“If you wish to understand the universe, think of energy, frequency and vibration.” – Nikola Tesla

From the very start of our lives we have been conditioned to perceive our existence through the 5 senses. Everything we have learned and believed to be true is credited to those limited senses. The truth is that we are more than what we see and feel; we are more than just flesh and bone.  Continue reading

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How I Handle My Critics

Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me.

In life we feel that there are people who are for us and others that are against us. We’ve all had our share of haters. It’s so easy to succumb to the pains their words create, but the challenge and all the glory lies in seeing the beauty in disguise. Continue reading